Im Hosting A Bachelorette Party And We Are Going To Dinner Do I Have To Pay For Everyone?

9 Responses to “ Im Hosting A Bachelorette Party And We Are Going To Dinner Do I Have To Pay For Everyone? ”

1. alian invaider says:

   July 11, 2009 at 10:35 pm

   you don’t have to pay why would you even want to have a Batchelor party eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew
2. Belle says:

   July 11, 2009 at 10:48 pm

   If your “hosting” and just invited people then some might think you’ll be paying for everybody. In some people’s mind it’s kinda like throwing a party and telling everyone to bring their own food! So just in case nobody misunderstood your invitation, I would let everyone know that it’s a pay your own way type of thing. That way you don’t end up having to pay a whole lot out of your pocket because someone didn’t bring money. After all, many people go by the if you invite then you pay kinda deal.
3. Cherry says:

   July 11, 2009 at 11:31 pm

   Yes, they need to take care of their own bill; otherwise, they would maybe order the most expensive thing leaving you with an incredibly high bill
   Also, a suggestion would be to put either the link to the menu of the place you will be going or if it is a smaller menu put that on/in your invitation so they won’t be caught off guard and this is a good way to let them politely know there will be cost
4. karizmah says:

   July 12, 2009 at 12:03 am

   NO – but to play it safe let the other gals know that it is everyone for themselves… and start a kitty for the bride! She def shouldn’t pay for self and you shouldn’t have to foot the whole bill…
5. PugMom says:

   July 12, 2009 at 12:29 am

   Absolutely not. The guests should expect to pay for themselves. Actually, the guests should also volunteer to put in for the bride.
6. 2Westies says:

   July 12, 2009 at 1:09 am

   If I threw a bachelorette party that included everyone out to dinner I would expect to pick up the tab unless I stated specifically in the invitation that we’re all going “dutch”.
7. La Vie Boheme says:

   July 12, 2009 at 1:20 am

   If you sent invitations and didn’t state that it’s a “pay your own way” event, people are going to expect that they don’t have to pay
8. MOA says:

   July 12, 2009 at 1:36 am

   Hell no, everyone paid for theirs at my bachelorette party to see thunder from down under.
9. ethansma says:

   July 12, 2009 at 2:01 am

   They did to pick up their own and it would be extra nice if they helped you pick up some of the brides bill…especially if there is lots of drinks.